to neberland

the peter pan story struck at first to be another chessy love story, after reading the cornhusk and the corral. but then again I was wrong.

it was a story of a some woman who was just to careful about life and did not know how to take risks. she would exactly be the opposite of who I am, I love taking risks although, they are the un-calculated types. in life you should know how to take risks to learn the untold story of life. the ones you don't read in self-help books and coffee table novels. the real deal, the real score as some would call it, it's the type of info that you can't buy and only you could find out for yourself. although don't assume that all risks are ok, it can be a double edged sword, meaning the outcome could be good or bad. that's when the calculated and uncalculated risks come in. you can go into a risky situation but knowing the outcome would let you determine if the risk will be good for you or not.

enough about risks and how to calculate them to suit your life.

the woman in the story was (i guess) too scared because of past events that she could not get over or she was just too scared to venture to the unknown only for the reason that it could not be safe. her experience with the rock star who disrespected her only aggravated the two "could-be" reasons.

if I were her I could just shrugg it off to leave opportunities for people who not as rude as the rock star. (on a side note: not all rock stars act like the bastard in the story) people these days are too uptight, that others are just too scared or hesitant to start a conversation just because all these pretenses we start in ourselves in the first place. if everyone can just chill for a sec and admire the simplicity of life with out the rules and complication we set out ourselves to complicate our lives.

guys, go out, be merry, have fun, for life is too short to be scared of all the uncalculated risks that could hit you in the face or put you on the pedestal. but if you just too scared, sorry go back to the nutshell you call life.